If someone asked you right now, what you want in life and your specific goals, would you be able to answer them without hesitation? Most people can’t, which is why they are not happy with many areas in their life.

The most important thing when setting your goals is to sit down and decide EXACTLY what you want. By doing this, your mind is put on the same frequency of what you desire and you will be in alignment with it. If you want more money in your life, but you keep telling yourself how broke you are, you are not on the right frequency and will probably continue to be broke. This may sound harsh, but is very much reality.

If you continue to tell yourself that you hate your life and nothing ever goes right in it, you are exactly right.

You are exactly what you think about.

You have to start thinking about what you want and NOT what you don’t want. You may think that you are putting out the right messages, but the wrong things keep happening. In this situation, you will need to change your strategy or approach. Put more emotion and feeling into your thoughts.

Thinking this way can be very difficult at first because it opens up a whole new way of thinking that most people are not exposed to.

Think of it like a road map. You would never in your right mind travel across the country without a map or any plans. You would use a map, GPS, or something or that sort to get you there. The same should be true in your life. You need to have a destination and a plan to go where you want to go.

Shifting and tweaking your directions just slightly can change your destination completely.

Here are 4 steps you need to take in order to help you DECIDE what you want in life.

1. Ask Yourself “What would I do if I could not fail?”-This question will allow yourself to focus on what you really want without any obstacles. Don’t worry about wanting things you think are not possible. Use this question and define your perfect life and things you would do if you had no fear or any limitations.

“What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?” – Unknown

2. Be Specific-Don’t say you want more money! Write a specific amount down, so that you can measure it. It does not have to sound reasonable to you right now. Just make sure you are as specific as possible. The universe gives us what we want, the problem is that we are not being intelligent about the way we ask it. Be as specific as possible if you want to achieve results.

3. Know Why You Want It-Write down all the reasons why you want something and the result of what would happen if you had it. Constantly refer back to this. This will motivate you to take action when obstacles start getting in the way. Check out my post to learn more about What is your “Why” and “Purpose”? .

4. Write Out the Steps You Need to Take-At least write the 3 actions you need to take in order to achieve what you want. It might be to make a phone call, compare different products, write an article, or sign up for a membership. Make sure that you write the steps down so that your goal seems possible to you. You must have an action plan to succeed! Once you get the momentum, you will be well on your way to success.

Go out there and decide what you want in your life and don’t settle for anything less. If you get committed to a result, you just might be surprised on how things start flowing into your life. Be sure to enjoy the process and have fun with it. Remember…its your life. :D


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